Is he sorry? or is he covering up for something?

lol...sounds like my relationship. I am a jealous person, and it drives me crazy that she is around other guys all the time. It's because I have low self-esteem and I'm afraid that she will realize I don't deserve her and go out with someone else. You are right that trust is important, but it's hard when both people are insecure. You'll just have to endure and work through it. My gf is an hour away at school, and I have way too much free time to worry. He might have cheated on you...doesn't mean he did. Maybe he just has low self-esteem and realizes how great you are to him, and he doesn't want you running off with someone else better. My gf doesn't like me hanging around my friend Amanda. I know nothing would ever happen between Amanda and me, but my gf isn't inside my head to understand that. I have had extremely attractive girls trying to grind on me at concerts before when i'm not with my girl and I stopped them. I had a girl send me an explicit video of her (doing bad things to herself) and wanting me to do that to her. and I haven't tlaked to this girl since. I hope this helps because my relationship is similar to yours. I'm just sayin I have had plenty of opportunity to cheat on my gf with no reprocussions, and I declined. It is possible for him to just be insecure. So unless you have physical evidence to not trust him, lead a great life with him. Have fun and enjoy. Remember mutual trust, mutual respect, mutual happiness, mutual friendship..is all important. Always let him know how you feel about him and maybe let him know you enjoy texts from him too..to know that he's still interested..hope this helps, Brian