for my boyfriend (I'm a girl)?

It hurts at first, but his body will adjust to it if you goes SLOW and uses a lot of lube. He has to take you in a little bit, then wait to adjust. Then take a little more, and wait. Continue until you have found a comfortable balance, then he can work up the speed. After he gets used to it it's amazing. Talk y to him, flirt with him, kiss him and build up slowly, don't make it an agenda situation. Buy either a strap on or just a , but think on the small-medium size. I recommend a prostate mager as those do amaaazzzing things for the male . Think of it as the male .